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not neccessarily Bi-polar/Manic, perhaps something else?

feeds@yuku.com (ArtificialDoll) — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 12:21:49 GMT

Hello. My name is Shaylyn. I've come here because I believe I may suffer from some kind of illness or disorder, OR I might not at all, and just think I do, I really don't know, I'm just looking for a little guidance. I've researched some of the problems I feel I could possibly be dealing with and it seems to all point to Borderline Personality Disorder. I was abused as a child, sexually abused. My dad had an anger issue, my parents got divorced. As of right now, I'm a...

"Please let me live my life in some peace!?"

feeds@yuku.com (coolkym122) — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 12:16:54 GMT

This is a poem about myself. It really did happen to me and I now have to deal with this every day of my life. Sure maybe I don't ALWAYS think of it every second of every day... but when I do think of it, it hurts and I hate it. I am trying to get through something terrible that happened to me and I am not going to dwelling on it and let it eat me up inside. That's why I wrote this poem, to help me deal with this and to get it out of my head in some way. I wasn't going to show...

am i depressed?

feeds@yuku.com (Antonia123) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 19:24:38 GMT

i feel like im insignificant, like i just shouldnt try, i put other peoples happiness before mine, i just dont care about anything, my mood is up and down ALL the time, one second im peppy and happy and the next im either just silent and moody or crying. ive lost intrest in most everything i love. i want to sleep every sencond. am i depressed?

crazy girl who is never happy

feeds@yuku.com (mandimgram) — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:26:32 GMT

i have the most wonderful husband. he does everything for me. there is one problem, i can't stand to be around him. I don't understand it. it would make my life so much easier if i could just love him the way he loves me. I found an old friend on facebook and got a crush on him. I have this problem where getting attention from other guys makes me feel good. does anyone else have this problem or am i really crazy?

Fraustrated please help

feeds@yuku.com (fiona921) — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:27:04 GMT

I have been together with my boyfriend for over 4yrs and have been living with him for a year and a half. He is not a bad person and has a number of great qualities but after about six months of living together we seem to just argue constantly. Almost every other week we are mad at each other about something then we don't speak to each other and when we do speak it's another arguement. Then I am always the one to try to resolve whatever issues we have because he just leaves it all up...

How do I sound less like a mom and more like a big sister?

feeds@yuku.com (bigsis) — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 11:18:04 GMT

My little brother is, let's say, a free spirit. He 18 and loves to be philosophical and free to have a good time. He unfortunately got involved with drinking, smoking and experimenting with other drugs when he was only 14 or 15. We come from a good family, with loving and supportive parents. We always had rules and boundaries, but were always free to be our own person. In January, my brother was driving drunk and got into an accident. He has had to pay the consequences for this, and we...

What Do I Do

feeds@yuku.com (Gkaz) — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 19:05:17 GMT

My partner and I of 2 years have been quite happely but from the start i didn't know that my partner also included 2 kids which they do not belong to her, but her foster sister... they had a rocky relationship and just recently they are building their relationship, but from the start we had BBqs a lot with people that had kids and hardly any with just friends and adults around, so i just went along and every so often we would argue about spending time together just the 2 of us; without...

Have no idea what to do......

feeds@yuku.com (Jaydra) — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 18:38:32 GMT

I am a model, Have been for a few years. I live in a very small town. I have done some nude modeling and have managed to keep this from my child. However, i guess some boys at her school found some on the interet and confronted her with it. She is super embarrassed as well as I am. It has gone around her school and I feel horrible. Kids have way to much time on their hands these days. I cant even make the pics pop up just by browsing and trying to find it. What do I tell her, how do...

Confused... Any advice appreciated!

feeds@yuku.com (MissJ18) — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 07:23:49 GMT

I don't know if you can help me or give any advice for my situation, but anything would be greatly appreciated. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now. He's absolutely amazing. He's loving, caring, good looking, smart, and motivated. However, we have so many differences. In the beginning it was great and wonderful, I believe it is also known as the "honeymoon period." However, as time went on, we have argued more and more. On many issues we are like night...

how do i get my parents to truly give my boyfriend a chance?

feeds@yuku.com (samthelamb) — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 23:35:33 GMT

hey everyone!
So I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and although the age difference doesn't bother me anymore, my parents absolutely dissaprove of it...I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 27. I am trying to become a professional dancer and am currently a sophomore in college and my boyfriend just graduated last fall with two degrees in graphic design and music. We have such a healthy, honest relationship and am constantly learning and growing from eachother...Now to my...

Any Advice Is Welcomed!

feeds@yuku.com (frustrated336) — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 19:18:06 GMT

I dont have alot of time this evening to write all about my relationship, but here's just a lil and I will update it tomorrow while im at work, at least i hope i can, im new to this whole thing, not sure how it exactly works. But anyways, My boyfriend and I are obviously going thru some things, or else I would not be seeking advice, but things were great up until just a couple months ago and they seem to be getting progressivley worse. He use to treat me so sweet and special, help me with...

I want my money back.

feeds@yuku.com (Pravda) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 07:50:04 GMT

I paid for my session 3 weeks ago, and emailed Eric Rutberg 2 weeks ago, and have not received any response. That is unacceptable. How do I get my money back?????

i want to die

feeds@yuku.com (inpain803) — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 10:03:10 GMT

ive been feeling suicidal every since i was in elementary school....&& im 21 now. i guess you could say it all started when i was molested by my stepfather, when that was going on i was praying to god every night to please help me (i was way more spiritual back then) & guess what....he never did. after that i started cutting my arms whenever i was really depressed or in a fit of rage, which was often. im...

Crying hard. economy sucks. no jobs. no money.

feeds@yuku.com (jasmineeacret) — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 14:49:53 GMT

hello, My name is Jasmine. I live in northern california, and Im trying to move to san fransico. or I have been trying for 5 months now. I have been looking for jobs from every website there is posting resumes and sending out more than 10 per day. it seems im not good enough for anything. not donut shops or seven eleven. im just not qualified as everyone else because i have gotten only one interview after 4 months and recently had a scammer tell me i was hired. how rude. Im so stressed out. I...

Is Ask The Internet Therapist FREE or do you have to paid?

feeds@yuku.com (Jovanna) — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 11:58:42 GMT

How much do they charge? Is there any free online theraphy?

codependant?

feeds@yuku.com (boppyann) — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 15:21:45 GMT

I have recently had a boyfriend who broke up with me, who cheated, lied, hit me and made me feel worthless. I was a child of alcoholism and was sexually molested by my babysitter. I have found myself sad and hurting because things ended. I do not understand why I would feel this way when someone did these horrible things to me. I feel like its my fault and always am looking at my phone to see if he had texted me or called. I want this sick feeling in my stomach to go away. Any...

MY FRIEND CALLS ME A GAY JUST BECAUSE...

feeds@yuku.com (sgoh994) — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 22:05:13 GMT

Just because I wore a shirt that has a pink letter A and a crown NOT TIARA. Yesterday was my sixteenth birthday.We hanged out together for a meal and he went around telling my other friends that my shirt was very girlish. I was greeted by forlorn, confused stares. Some of the stares affected me, for I'm a person who sees in how people perceive me. Just like that, everyone thought I was a sissy. I felt that it was an insult to my manhood, on my sixteenth birthday...
I don't know...

a good parent

feeds@yuku.com (linzgbz) — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 19:34:04 GMT

Here is a novel (sorry) but I think a little history might be required if you are able to help me with my problem and give me some good advice on where to go, what to do, how to do it, etc...I'd really like to run to a deserted island and raise my son by myself without any worries.

my college degree is in child development...it is my passion, I read about it, watch shows on it, love it...HOWEVER, it's my curse...I often think being ignorant might be...

Dealing with repetetive boundary crossing

feeds@yuku.com (gopherboy) — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:11:04 GMT

I have an issue in my life that deals with people close to me violating personal boundaries. Moreover, I befriend people that do so. It isn't rampant in my life but it does occur. As an example, last week over 2 days I had a friend critique something was very dear to my heart. I asked him not to. He continued. I removed myself from the situation twice more. On the fifth time of him laying into me on the principle, I asked him to stop, told him not to say any more until I could leave the...

so mean....

feeds@yuku.com (pang2209) — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 13:06:12 GMT

Okay, so here's the thing, i have a girlfriend and we broke up beacuse we barley talked i was never apart of her life and i just waanted more, but now things have gotten better she's trying more and everything, but the littlest things set me off to her, i get so mad and i want nothing to do with her, i'm so mean and i've never been mean to anyone before like i am to her, i don't get it i know i resent her for how she treated me in the past and i wanna move on past that but...