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			<title><![CDATA[ Teenage sleepovers ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ My 19 year old son still lives at home.  I have told him the rules of the house are:  he cannot have any girls sleepover.  I have already caught him before
inwhich he denies anything happened. I do not condone having girls sleepover in my home.  His argument is he can sleepover at girls&#39; homes and their
parents do not care. Am I being too strict regarding this?  He also has a 14 year old brother in the home. ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Have no idea what to do...... ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/842/t/Have-no-idea-what-to-do-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I am a model,  Have been for a few years.  I live in a very small town.  I have done some nude modeling and have managed to keep this from my child.  However,
i guess some boys at her school found some on the interet and confronted her with it.  She is super embarrassed as well as I am.  It has gone around her school
and I feel horrible.  Kids have way to much time on their hands these days.  I cant even make the pics pop up just by browsing and trying to find it.  What do
I tell her, how do... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 18:38:32 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ a good parent ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/832/t/a-good-parent.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <font color="#0000FF">Here is a novel (sorry) but I think a little history might be required if you are able to help me with my problem and give me some good
advice on where to go, what to do, how to do it, etc...I&#39;d really like to run to a deserted island and raise my son by myself without any worries.
<br>
<br>
my college degree is in child development...it is my passion, I read about it, watch shows on it, love it...HOWEVER, it&#39;s my curse...I often think being
ignorant might be... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 19:34:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Discovered nine year old has been watching porn! ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/791/t/Discovered-nine-year-old-has-been-watching-porn-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I have been a complete wreck the past 3 days. After checking the history on my daughter&#39;s laptop, I discovered she&#39;d been watching some pretty hardcore
stuff online. Now, every time I look at her I think about the images she must of seen and I am so sad over the loss of her innocence. I thought that we had a
pretty good relationship, and had always answered her questions about sex honestly, but all of a sudden I can&#39;t bring myself to talk to her. I find myself
even being cold... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 18:35:09 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Extremely overbearing mother causing me serious grief ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I am the 25 year-old daughter of an EXTREMELY overbearing woman. She spends my money w/o asking and expects more and more, from me. But, I am afraid that I
don&#39;t have anything left 2 give, not even 2 myself. I am burnt-out, and I haven&#39;t even really begun 2 live, yet. It&#39;s like losing hope. I&#39;ve
never really been on my own....n w/ a mom like mine, I sometime begin 2 doubt that I am capable of doing so. She just assumes that b/c I am her offspring, she
owns me and everything of... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 17:49:56 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ I want it ... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <br style="color: rgb(0, 102, 255);">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 255);">Great new site !!!</span>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Trying to determine if relationship with adult children is worth pursuing anymore ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/740/t/Trying--determine--relationship--adult-children--worth-pursu.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hello,
<br>
<br>
Let&#39;s try the short version...married 17 years,left wife 1999 and three kids when they were ages between 11 and 15. Got divorced while overseas. Exwife
remarried 2001 as well as I. Children grew up and never re bonded with me. Me in California and they in Virginia. Now that I am required to walk gauntlet and
daughter down the aisle to marry...BUT...all three adult children never call,acknowledge holidays or birthday or fathers day OR seem interested in my life even
though... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 22:55:20 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Parental Respect ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/736/t/Parental-Respect.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ My son is only 2 years old and it is obvious that he does not respect me. He listens to everything his father tells him to do while I have to scream until I am
blue in the face. Even with all of that he still takes his time doing something...........if he even does it at all. I don&#39;t understand. I feel like
I&#39;m doing everything that I am suppose to. My husband and I are pretty much on the same page with disciplining him and we show no disrespect towards each
other. He doesn&#39;t... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (kmorring)</author>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 20:38:28 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Teenage daughter and friends ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/674/t/Teenage-daughter-and-friends.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I need help in trying to figure out how to deal with my daughter&#39;s friends, or lack there of. There are a group of 6 girls plus my daughter who typically
hang out together. For the past 5-6 weeks they have pretty much excluded her out of everything. As freshmen going into their first high school year together,
things were fine. My daughter and one of the girls made the JV volleyball team and all the others did not. Ever since this, things have gone downhill for my
daughter, but not the... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (peace411)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 06:22:58 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ My Parents control too much even when we're adults ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/665/t/My-Parents-control-too-much-even-when-we-re-adults.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ This letter I sent to my Cousin last week. I&#39;d explain more myself, but it&#39;s a long story to rebuild. Overall, I get angry over things now because they
are stubborn and now I&#39;m inheriting their habit of stubborness:
<br>
<br>

<p class="EC_MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><font color="#000000">I moved back to Fresno because my parents said that they were
losing their house (foreclosure) and that they couldn&#39;t help me pay my car anymore so I had to... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:31:34 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ My Parents control too much even when we're adults ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/666/t/My-Parents-control-too-much-even-when-we-re-adults.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ This letter I sent to my Cousin last week. I&#39;d explain more myself, but it&#39;s a long story to rebuild. Overall, I get angry over things now because they
are stubborn and now I&#39;m inheriting their habit of stubborness:
<br>
<br>

<p class="EC_MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><font color="#000000">I moved back to Fresno because my parents said that they were
losing their house (foreclosure) and that they couldn&#39;t help me pay my car anymore so I had to... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ My Parents control too much even when we're adults ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/664/t/My-Parents-control-too-much-even-when-we-re-adults.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ This letter I sent to my Cousin last week. I&#39;d explain more myself, but it&#39;s a long story to rebuild. Overall, I get angry over things now because they
are stubborn and now I&#39;m inheriting their habit of stubborness:
<br>
<br>

<p class="EC_MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><font color="#000000">I moved back to Fresno because my parents said that they were
losing their house (foreclosure) and that they couldn&#39;t help me pay my car anymore so I had to... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:31:23 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Stepson with emotional issues ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/610/t/Stepson-with-emotional-issues.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <p>My husband and I married 4 years ago. We&#39;ve actually been together for 5. He has 3 sons from his first marriage. His oldest &quot;Jacob&quot; has always
had some serious &quot;issues&quot;with me. He is not my husbands natural son. Jacob was raised by his grandmother for the first 10 months of his life. My
husband met and married his mother within a month and then moved jacob in with them. My husband raised him like his own and in fact he didnt know any
differently until is mother told... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (zoynks2)</author>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 08:54:12 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Circumcision ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/604/t/Circumcision.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Hello, I am an 18 year old male living in the U.S. For the last couple years, the issue of infant circumcision has really bothered me. Like many kids in the
U.S., I was circ&#39;d at birth, and have struggled with feelings of being violated, as well as a huge amount of resentment towards my parents. I hate it,
because my parents are good people, but knowing they had the most sensitive part of my dick permanently chopped off for the rest of my life really bothers me.
I post here in hope that... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (ippahp)</author>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 19:26:17 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Good Parenting ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/593/t/Good-Parenting.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I believe no parent is perfect. It is trial and error. However with much love, patience, understanding, commitment, trust, respect, and attentivness. That is
what truly defines being a great parent. Would you agree? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 12:56:06 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ 15 Yr old son ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/587/t/15-Yr-old-son.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I am in need of some advice. I got divorced from my first husband about 4 yrs ago and we moved from Bradenton, Fl to Orlando to be near my family. It was
really, really hard on my son. Well, almost 2 years ago, I my ex fiance from when I was 19 found me and we are now married. We got married 1 year ago. Before
we got married, I moved to Tallahassee with him (he&#39;s lived in Tallahassee for 10 years now) to find a job and a place to live for all of us. (My son,
daughter and my husband and I)... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (lola21571)</author>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 10:24:33 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Questions about PTSD and Dissociation ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/581/t/Questions-about-PTSD-and-Dissociation.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I have a child in my care who is experiencing dissociation. How can I tell if he is truly multiple personality. He seems like it to my husband and I - we are
new to this though.
<br>
He has PTSD, hallucinates, dissociates, has numerous tics. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:25:06 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ anxiety panic and irritation ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/377/t/anxiety-panic-and-irritation.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ hi friends,<br>i am mother of two daughters 11 and 5. we moved from malysia 41/2 yrs after , to usa. when i delivered my elder daughter my parents brother were around and brother was alcoholic not much but each weekend he used to drink and trouble my parents for money. throughout pregnenecy i had same situation anxiety panic etc. though i wasnt staying in my parents house it was very near from mine. i was barely 22 when i  was mom. i had low self esteem because of spects and smaller one eye... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (dash)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 08:26:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ My daughter said she wanted to hurt herself ]]></title>
			<link>http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/378/t/My-daughter-said-she-wanted-to-hurt-herself.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ My 14yr old daughter was taken from the school counselors office to a psychiatric center for children when she admitted to wanting to hurt herself....<br>While My wife and I were waiting to hear from the counseling center, we went through her room looking for drugs and or blades or anything that could lead us to what was going on. We found my daughters diary, which was full of hateful writings......she evidently hates me for being the disciplinarian in the family.....and she thinks I favor... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 03 Oct 2007 13:10:34 GMT</pubDate>
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