Relationships

biggest relationship problem

feeds@yuku.com (Rebecca) — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 15:29:25 GMT

Oh wow where to start, story of my life, I had a bestfriend for 2 years. Those were the Two wonderful greatest years of my life. But he was in love with me and i only thought of him as a bestfriend. I'd never get tired of him though, he was the one i told everything to, even my boy problems. I didnt realize that only hurt him worse. He put up with me for so long until the day i decided someone else besides him was going to be my first. I was so ignorant and blinded by lust that i thought...

"Please let me live my life in some peace!?"

feeds@yuku.com (coolkym122) — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 12:16:54 GMT

This is a poem about myself. It really did happen to me and I now have to deal with this every day of my life. Sure maybe I don't ALWAYS think of it every second of every day... but when I do think of it, it hurts and I hate it. I am trying to get through something terrible that happened to me and I am not going to dwelling on it and let it eat me up inside. That's why I wrote this poem, to help me deal with this and to get it out of my head in some way. I wasn't going to show...

Fraustrated please help

feeds@yuku.com (fiona921) — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:27:04 GMT

I have been together with my boyfriend for over 4yrs and have been living with him for a year and a half. He is not a bad person and has a number of great qualities but after about six months of living together we seem to just argue constantly. Almost every other week we are mad at each other about something then we don't speak to each other and when we do speak it's another arguement. Then I am always the one to try to resolve whatever issues we have because he just leaves it all up...

What Do I Do

feeds@yuku.com (Gkaz) — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 19:05:17 GMT

My partner and I of 2 years have been quite happely but from the start i didn't know that my partner also included 2 kids which they do not belong to her, but her foster sister... they had a rocky relationship and just recently they are building their relationship, but from the start we had BBqs a lot with people that had kids and hardly any with just friends and adults around, so i just went along and every so often we would argue about spending time together just the 2 of us; without...

Confused... Any advice appreciated!

feeds@yuku.com (MissJ18) — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 07:23:49 GMT

I don't know if you can help me or give any advice for my situation, but anything would be greatly appreciated. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now. He's absolutely amazing. He's loving, caring, good looking, smart, and motivated. However, we have so many differences. In the beginning it was great and wonderful, I believe it is also known as the "honeymoon period." However, as time went on, we have argued more and more. On many issues we are like night...

how do i get my parents to truly give my boyfriend a chance?

feeds@yuku.com (samthelamb) — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 23:35:33 GMT

hey everyone!
So I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and although the age difference doesn't bother me anymore, my parents absolutely dissaprove of it...I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 27. I am trying to become a professional dancer and am currently a sophomore in college and my boyfriend just graduated last fall with two degrees in graphic design and music. We have such a healthy, honest relationship and am constantly learning and growing from eachother...Now to my...

Any Advice Is Welcomed!

feeds@yuku.com (frustrated336) — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 19:18:06 GMT

I dont have alot of time this evening to write all about my relationship, but here's just a lil and I will update it tomorrow while im at work, at least i hope i can, im new to this whole thing, not sure how it exactly works. But anyways, My boyfriend and I are obviously going thru some things, or else I would not be seeking advice, but things were great up until just a couple months ago and they seem to be getting progressivley worse. He use to treat me so sweet and special, help me with...

codependant?

feeds@yuku.com (boppyann) — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 15:21:45 GMT

I have recently had a boyfriend who broke up with me, who cheated, lied, hit me and made me feel worthless. I was a child of alcoholism and was sexually molested by my babysitter. I have found myself sad and hurting because things ended. I do not understand why I would feel this way when someone did these horrible things to me. I feel like its my fault and always am looking at my phone to see if he had texted me or called. I want this sick feeling in my stomach to go away. Any...

MY FRIEND CALLS ME A GAY JUST BECAUSE...

feeds@yuku.com (sgoh994) — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 22:05:13 GMT

Just because I wore a shirt that has a pink letter A and a crown NOT TIARA. Yesterday was my sixteenth birthday.We hanged out together for a meal and he went around telling my other friends that my shirt was very girlish. I was greeted by forlorn, confused stares. Some of the stares affected me, for I'm a person who sees in how people perceive me. Just like that, everyone thought I was a sissy. I felt that it was an insult to my manhood, on my sixteenth birthday...
I don't know...

Dealing with repetetive boundary crossing

feeds@yuku.com (gopherboy) — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:11:04 GMT

I have an issue in my life that deals with people close to me violating personal boundaries. Moreover, I befriend people that do so. It isn't rampant in my life but it does occur. As an example, last week over 2 days I had a friend critique something was very dear to my heart. I asked him not to. He continued. I removed myself from the situation twice more. On the fifth time of him laying into me on the principle, I asked him to stop, told him not to say any more until I could leave the...

so mean....

feeds@yuku.com (pang2209) — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 13:06:12 GMT

Okay, so here's the thing, i have a girlfriend and we broke up beacuse we barley talked i was never apart of her life and i just waanted more, but now things have gotten better she's trying more and everything, but the littlest things set me off to her, i get so mad and i want nothing to do with her, i'm so mean and i've never been mean to anyone before like i am to her, i don't get it i know i resent her for how she treated me in the past and i wanna move on past that but...

Deployed spouse

feeds@yuku.com (mickey55) — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 17:21:43 GMT

My spouse has been deployed almost every year for at least 6 months over the past 5 years. Now he is deployed to Iraq for 18 months. How do I avoid growing apart from my husband of 13 years?

overbearing parents?

feeds@yuku.com (tasukete) — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 19:08:35 GMT

hi
background:
I'm a 24 year old male and currently living with my folks. Since graduating from college, I've been having a diffcult time with my folks.Mostly with them wanting to know my business if I want to leave the house(where you going, who are you going with, how do you know this person etc) Sadly I don't have that close connection with my parents so I don't feel that I have to tell them everything that goes on my life but I try to still...

Jealous of BF's Ex

feeds@yuku.com (carpe78) — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 10:08:00 GMT

My boyfriend is currently best friends with his ex girlfriend. I have no reason to be jealous, but I can't help it. They broke up in 2007, and come from the same town. They are together all the time, and he helps her, because she is sick.
What can I do to stop being jealous? I do not have contact with my ex's and I can't get over the fact that they are so close.
He even wants me to go to church with them. I am not religious, and I don't want to hang out with...

My husband is addicted to porn and more!

feeds@yuku.com (daniLburk) — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 09:46:53 GMT

It was 2005 the first time I discovered that he had been making profiles on internet dating websites. Some of them reading that he was unhappily married and looking for "something else" and others portraying himself as a "single man looking for a busty woman." But, the one that really dropped my jaw was the one he had made on a gay site. Obviously I confronted him about the issue and asked him why he did it. His answer was that he had made those profiles when we were...

impact on kids

feeds@yuku.com (resolution09) — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:56:54 GMT

been married for 10 years and have 2 kids.
FIrst year into our marriage my wife did not want to be around my sister and absolutely hated her
After going through counseling back in 2005 it was decided that I have to go alone
with the kids to visit my family and if my family is visiting my wife would stay in a hotel or at friends place.
It is really painful for me to see such an arrangement but lets say
we have to "suck it up" as a compromise in a marriage....

Help with my marriage PLEASE!

feeds@yuku.com (beachbum) — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 05:54:54 GMT

I am 38 years old, male and I have been married for 14 years. We have three boys and they are great! All three of them are very active and do very well in school as well. We are a church going family and all seems well to most everyone on the outside. We have had small struggles for a few years now, with intimacy and making time for each other! We let our selves get to busy with going and taking the boys to practice and just life got in the way and our relationship has struggled! It...

Internet cheating husband!!! Need some advice!!!

feeds@yuku.com (mellie79) — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 18:55:02 GMT

Hello Everyone,

This is my story!

I have been married 3 years now, I met my husband and he was the man of my dreams! Soon after we married though I began to think disturbing things about his fidelity to me. I began to have these thoughts that he was screwing around.

About 6 months ago my most horrible nightmare came true when his cellphone went off and said there was email so for some reason i picked it up and took a look (something I nver do) When i did it said...

divorse!!

feeds@yuku.com (mariposita) — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 17:45:42 GMT

hi, my problem is that am married, i have been married for 2 years and i have a 1year old baby, but in diciember it will be 2 years that i have not been with my husband intimatly, he says he just doesnt feel like it, and he swears that he has no other girl...what should i do?

Internet/Cell Phone Cheater

feeds@yuku.com (anonymous529) — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 08:21:59 GMT

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I lived with him summer 2008 and I am living with him again right now, summer 2009, until school starts. When I am back at college I see him every weekend and on school breaks, and we talk constantly.
I found out in the beginning of June that he replied to a posting on craigslist and had set up an email account and was having sexual conversations with a male. I confronted him about this and he begged me to stay with him. He is not...