http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/forums/7 en-us Copyright 2006, Yuku feeds@yuku.com (FeedMaster) webmaster@yuku.com (WebMaster) Wed, 15 Jul 2009 09:43:15 GMT Yuku Feeds 1.0 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 http://static.yuku.com//feed/bypass/images/button-yuku.png http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/forums/7 Yuku - free hosted forums and profiles 88 31 {pics-1.1 "http://www.icra.org/ratingsv02.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (nz 1 vz 1 lz 1 oz 1 cz 1 ) "http://www.rsac.org/ratingsv01.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (n 0 s 0 v 0 l 0 )) Search Domain q http://yuku.com/search/direct/ http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/799/t/Codependent-with-a-want-to-improve-.html feeds@yuku.com (jgal97) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/799 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 11:15:59 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/771/t/Crazy-in-love-no-really-CRAZY-in-love-and-its-not-a-song.html First and foremost, let me just mention that these feelings may not be codependency as you might see them. It took me a long time to figure out why. It turns out, that your views on everything from alcohol to drug abuse is already formulated in your head by the 1st grade; 2nd grade at the latest. It's called a belief system, and yes they are important. Understanding your belief system will help you overcome your addiction(s). I would go more into that, but i have a lot of... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (wicaend) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/771 Fri, 08 May 2009 11:11:54 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/770/t/changing-from-codependent.html
I need... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (timeforme) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/770 Thu, 07 May 2009 20:43:31 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/763/t/codependency-domestic-violence-and-what-to-do-next.html feeds@yuku.com (kali) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/763 Sat, 18 Apr 2009 13:27:43 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/742/t/i-hurt-so-bad.html feeds@yuku.com (yumi) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/742 Mon, 02 Mar 2009 13:27:01 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/714/t/-think--may--histrionic-personality-disorder----worsened--ho.html feeds@yuku.com (alymend) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/714 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:03:19 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/713/t/-think--may--histrionic-personality-disorder----worsened--ho.html feeds@yuku.com (alymend) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/713 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:03:12 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/616/t/please-some-good-advice-I-need-help-.html I actually have the same problem, I am 29 yrs old and have been married for 7 years! I have had problems in marriage since the beginning,but this past year we got separated , I mean I decided to leave because I felt I wasn't happy and I needed some space to find myself. but something so weird happen right after I left I realized I lost my home and family(kinda) so I started to get panic attacks. I realized I can't breath without my husband. So I went back!
We decided to... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (laleha) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/616 Sat, 28 Jun 2008 19:49:17 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/592/t/Parenting.html feeds@yuku.com (brandybrat1) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/592 Tue, 22 Apr 2008 12:52:53 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/579/t/Confused-about-helping-or-not-.html feeds@yuku.com (cakxs3) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/579 Mon, 17 Mar 2008 08:30:45 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/474/t/i-wanna-be-free-from-it-.html feeds@yuku.com (rachkat) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/474 Thu, 20 Dec 2007 01:33:15 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/475/t/two-co-dependants-in-a-relationship.html feeds@yuku.com (angegirl72) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/475 Wed, 10 Oct 2007 10:58:51 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/473/t/I-hate-my-life.html I live with my ex-husband who is an alcoholic. I have two children who suffer from anger and depression. I have manic depression and want to leave,can't financially and i am feeling defeated. I am confused and feeling helpless.There are alot more issues involved. Anyone have any suggestions? ]]> feeds@yuku.com (emmie) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/473 Fri, 28 Sep 2007 06:11:23 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/476/t/My-Life-in-A-Self-Inflicted-World-of-Pain.html
I would like to tell my story, because I hope it helps someone first of all, but more importantly because I need to let it out of me.

I am a 39 year old truck driver, and I also suffer from co dependency. I have been for more years than I want to remember. My dependency has led to more pain than one life should ever have to endure. It robbed me of happiness most of my adult life to date and left me with the loneliest existance one could ever imagine.

My... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (enamorada30) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/476 Sun, 08 Apr 2007 06:00:55 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/480/t/Advice-for-newly-discovered-codpendent-.html I've been with my husband for 16 years, married for 12. A year ago I found out my husband had been cheating on me on and off for our entire marriage. It was a devastating shock, but we are trying to work it out.
In the past 3 months my husband has taken up binge drinking. He is on an antidepressant that seems to prevent hangovers, so he'll drink 6-12 beers on a Friday or Saturday. He won't drink all week, but it's been almost every... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Treesa) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/480 Sun, 15 Oct 2006 19:02:20 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/479/t/Debt-problems.html feeds@yuku.com (jazzyjul ) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/479 Fri, 06 Oct 2006 18:21:30 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/471/t/i-am-terrified-to-lose-him.html
hi, i have been having problems with my relationship for quite a long time now ( 6 months) i am 22 my boy 24, it's 11 months we share a room togheter now.
but our relationship it's becoming a nightmare, every 4-5 days we have a fight, it all starts for a small thing like : " oh you didn't come to pick me up from work today" or " i am very upset... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (veronika183) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/471 Wed, 01 Mar 2006 10:59:42 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/470/t/Cant-afford-to-leave-.html
I live with my girlfriend. I desperately want to get out of the relationship but am not in a position to do so financially. I have no savings and I work for myself (from home) and my income has been quite low lately partly due to the distraction/unhappiness I am feeling.

I won't bore you with the reasons why I need to get out of this relationship but it is primarily to do with my girlfriends behaviour. Basically I cannot... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Unregistered(d)) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/470 Wed, 04 May 2005 03:18:31 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/477/t/co-dependency-spoiling-everything.html feeds@yuku.com (Unregistered(d)) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/477 Tue, 19 Apr 2005 11:11:38 GMT http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/472/t/help-with-several-problems-first-marital.html
Yesterday I was in a horrible state. Starting the night before I had uncontrollable shakes, skin crawling, chain smoking, can't sleep, SI thinking (after over a year of no thinking of it). Well yesterday I asked this online friend (so i thought) to come over and talk to me.... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (bad101) http://asktheinternettherapist.yuku.com/topic/472 Thu, 07 Apr 2005 07:51:00 GMT